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OK..so…a Facebook friend (to whom I have neer met but..I will be air in saying is very easy on the eyes…posed a question about Men and if they REALLY like a woman…they will take the time to place an actual call to make contact with them…and not JUST text the woman that they are meeting/courting//whatever term you may want to call it…Here was my response…
Christopher Fant: Although I do agree…it is to an extent..in this day and age…technology has changed the way relationships are forged and nutured…even tho true in deed…you can’t replace or put a price on talking on the phone on a weekday til 4AM (having to get up at 630!)…but just as equal you can find out the likes/dislikes chatting with them leisurely … during the day via IM…or with the ‘Poke and Reply’ via FB! (Not my favorite but it works)…I think that most guys (contrary to Carm’s stmt)..most guys LOVE texting…no need for the small talk…uncomfortable silences…needless and extra commentary…etc..etc…wh
at is important is being able to communicate on all levels…because when the phone isn’t there…a computer usually is…OK..one last idea…keep in mind…that maybe (and this is a stretch)…maybe the guy is busy working (most folks gots demselves 3 and 4 hustles these days)…and can’t afford (literally) to pick up the phone and kick back to a night-long conversation!
So, now the interesting tidbit…when you meet a woman…how much do you have to regulate the Electronic communications between the actual telephone communications…..so..let’s take it back to the land before time…where the only cell phones were portable and toted around in a bag…and pagers were the hot ticket….Everyone had their pager code! You could call a pager and leave your own little code or have the person call you back….even if it wasn’t timely…that’s how it was done…Maybe you emailed some joke that you got forwarded to you, but you likely had spoken to them far before the time it took for them to get that email transmittal….but now
but now…..we have SMS, MMS, IM, Email, Video Messaging…etc. etc….nowadays, most people don’t even have a home phone! The home phone means that you don’t have another internet provider and if you anything like me, your home phone doesn’t have any bells, whistles..NADA…zero, zealch (spelling check plz.)…so when does this special person get hollered at…when the time is PERFECT?!??…when both parties are mentally ready and able, when the GUY calls….cause everyone knows that women don’t like to be rejected, yadda, yadda, yadda, and they like to put all the ownership on the dude to call…Thats too bad…cause this is 2009, and if you wanna reach me…and you think of me….you better get at me…and the same thing would go for me…when you come to mind..I’m gonna reach out…and when we need and want to talk…WE WILL DO SO…let’s at least act like this is a 2-Way street..and not just me visiting your cul-de-sac…showing my damn self in and out, all in one motion.
And please believe it….all the while while it’s beakered (Spelling?!) about how much we talk on the phone…when are we going out on a date….let’s see how many times I text you while we face-to-face having dinner?…or IMing you asking you to dance at the club….at that point, yes..you would be justified to not Fuck wit a brotha…but until then…Get at me.
